Posts Tagged ‘Toys’
Dear Beautiful Lady HotchKiss,
Dildo play and Electrics and Nipple torture…hard to describe all of the emotions of everything that contributed, but mostly as always it was Lady. The most embarrassing moment is definitely curled into a pretzel against the cross and administering my enema. i did not even realize that i could get into that position, but for 46 i am fairly limber. The enema was excruciating afterwards; i did not expect Lady to make me go through exercises like tighten my ass cheeks to prevent an even more embarrassing situation. i can only imagine the shades of red i turned as it was. Read the rest of this entry »
Ma’am has toys W/we both enjoy and some that She prefers more than i. Prior to meeting and becoming involved with my Ma’am, Lady HotchKiss, no Lifestyle toy or implement ever terrified me. That is, until i experienced one of Ma’ams more unusual fetishes and the cruel and terrifying implement needed to part take of this fetish.
boy’s session with Lady HotchKiss on July 9 was one of the most sensual sessions boy has experienced to date. boy has been working hard on the new dungeon and boy thinks HotchKiss took this opportunity to express Her appreciation. The session started with a most sensual flogging with the heavy flogger. boy loves the heavy flogger and could stay under Her ministrations for hours. She seemed to enjoy it as well. It wasn’t all pleasure though, there was enough pain to make the session interesting and fulfilling. boy seems to need a certain degree of pain to appreciate the pleasure and HotchKiss applied just the right amount. boy was left with the most beautiful bruises on his left buttocks as a reminder that stayed with boy through the weekend. Whenever boy was in a bathroom or by himself near a mirror, boy took the opportunity to look at the bruising and remember. The one part of the session that kind of took boy aback, was when it was over!
Master Archer from Fantasies in Leather recently made Me a custom set of matching floggers, which were also first set of cross-weave patterned handles he made. I chose ivory and copper leather for the handle and flat black lashes.
i am evolving as a slave. Those who have read my posts will note an immediate difference. i am no longer using the 3rd person “boy” when speaking of myself. The rationale and justification for that usage is now gone. i asked LadyHotchKiss near the beginning of O/our relationship what i should call myself and She asked me what i wished to be called. At the time, i decided i wanted to use the 3rd person “boy” as a tool to help me get into the proper headspace when serving, or for that matter, even thinking of Her. It has become no longer necessary. i am in the proper headspace nearly all the time now, and in fact, have to consciously monitor myself when in vanilla situations so that i don’t appear slave-like at inappropriate moments. There are other changes as well.
This week marked boy’s one year anniversary with Lady HotchKiss and this weeks session was a reflection of that. (boy has written on his blog- ownedboy.com – about the anniversary and will not duplicate that here) Although at times, She was kinda rough with boy, overall it was a very, very, very enjoyable session. It started with Her attaching boy to the St Andrews cross via wrist shackles, then ankle shackles to a spreader bar. There followed some very sensual flogging as a warm up and progressed to some heavier flogging. The one thing that truly stood out for boy, was Her discovery of a nerve bundle under some thin skin near boy’s armpits. When pinched, this produced the most excruciating pain. boy thinks She did not quite believe boy about how much it hurt until She had boy pinch Her in the same place. Although boy did not pinch Her nearly as hard as She had pinched boy, She felt the pain. (this is written 3 days later and boy’s bruises where She pinched are still very visible, lol.) boy suspects that She will be using this knowledge in the future with boy and others. boy now believes he is becoming a masochist. Unlike some masochists who claim pain actually is pleasurable, boy still finds pain painful, but boy seems to need/crave it more than ever. Perhaps boy is becoming addicted to the endorphins produced. Whatever the cause, a scene would not seem complete at this point without a considerable amount of pain. boy cannot neglect to mention the aftercare provided by Lady HotchKiss. it was calming, sensual and just exactly the right amount given at exactly the right time. boy finished his day with Her by performing some service chores which made the day even more complete for boy. oh…and by the way…Lady HotchKiss soundly trounced boy in backgammon during lunch!
OMG! Dea, what a wonderful gift; it was WELL used this weekend.
by sled.
Ma’am and I went to O/our local dungeon recently in support of a mutual friend. While Ma’am and I were waiting for people to arrive W/we browsed the in-house store. Having seen a couple of items that interested Her on O/our last visit. Lady HotchKiss had decided that if they were still available that She would purchase them.
What W/we ended up with was a Dragon’s Tail and a Quirt. The Dragon’s Tail is loosely wrapped leather, suede or rubber attached to a handle. It is used by “flipping” the tail, think snapping a rolled up towel in the locker room or your local swimming pool when you were a kid. And you’ll get the idea how it works and its potential for painful contact.
Ah . . . My boy gave Me a VERY unexpected gift for My birthday. A “thingy”, a pokey thingy, a potentially painfully, pokey thingy! How do you know when a gift is for YOU and not them . . . when it is pokey and they like thuddy. Lol.
