I am always surprised by what people find difficult or a boundary.  Not LIMITS so much as places to grow “through”.

As you know I had a masturbation week a while ago . . . I challenged someone to masturbate for Me; only to find that this was a boundary!  Interesting.  After working on this issue for a 15 or minutes I was able to get him to lie down, position himself in a way that I could SEE his cock, and then touch himself.  And by touch I mean just that: touch . . . simply put a finger on his cock.  Then I asked him to tell Me one of his current fantasies . . . after blushing and stammering for a while I let him off the hook with a homework assignment.

Everyone has their boundaries and they are different and can change over time.  That is OK!  As a Dom it is great fun to work through those .

The BEST part of this is that he has no problem with CBT, enemas, pictures, etc.  Such a juxtaposition . . . thankfully he wants to experience “everything”.  Something I continually hold over his head! 

He loves impact play, but there is SOOOO much more to experience.  And he WILL!

Here is a picture of him waiting to be told it is OK to release the enema!

 I think you can see the RED nipples . . . having a little nipple torture while we waited for the enema to works its magic!

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First, I have been talking with a friend about his desire to have a Femdom watch, instruct, and otherwise enjoy him putting on a show!  While not the typical BDSM objectification; it certainly counts.  He wants to be desired entirely for his physical form; YUMMY!  His trip to Atlanta was delayed so I get to torment him with this idea . . . yeah Me!

Second, I have another friend that has purchased a CB3000.  We have been emailing about options for release.  Males are so worried about prostate health!  I agree it is important . .  . just find it humorous, ironic, etc that there are STUDIES about the NEED to release; for MALES.  No one has ever cared so much about a females need to orgasm . . . We have been discussing options; milking, masturbation, etc.  Personally, I find that a ruined masturbation orgasm gets the job done, requires little from Me, and gives LITTLE satisfaction.

Third . . . My boy has been under orgasm denial (as he puts it) and started to spontaneously (ha!) leak yesterday.  lol.  So, we he came over I put him to service work so that he would get the impression that play wasn’t going to happen.  After some much needed work was done, I sent him to the dungeon to get naked and we took care of the leakage!  I am sure that he will be writing about so I won’t give away any more details.

FINALLY, I have another friend that will be cuming over today . . . and I warned him that supervised and WATCHED masturbation was on the schedule for today.  I cannot wait to see the blushing and stammering!

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