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Humbler, Bondage, and Anal

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:00:04 +0000

Here are two pics; not sure what else needs to be said! lol.

Those balls look well USED. I KNOW I had fun!

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Humbling Desire for a Femdom

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:44:43 +0000

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Lady Hotchkiss I am certain it is appreciated by those who take a short time to look, or who know You. May I express the hope that I offer sufficient lubency around Superior women. And thank You for saving that word! Perhaps it is disappearing because it is difficult to do, fully. Just one example from Your blog which has left me thinking and pondering and, I hope I can achieve this, considering whether I should be revising my attitude to limits and serving. Your writing on the steel humbler made my heart go faster and things fluttered in my stomach. When You added that it has compression and electrics attachments I had a conflict of emotions between knowing that such a thing exists, that You have one, and I have to confess some anxiety and fear even to think of it. I confess I do not have the experience to understand how that would be administered and the effects. It is the intelligence with which you write, and think, and the SSC context which makes me consider attempting to take further the sort of service I might give. Your account of putting it in the freezer is devilishly incapacitating, You will know I am certain the effect of cold on those male parts and hence the increase in tension achieved. In truth my anxiety of failure in such a situation is real, but it is through accounts such as Yours that I may learn more and become a more appropriate subject at such time I have the honour of serving a Superior woman. Thank you.

Me

If I may . . . I would love to share your email on House of HotchKiss; I think it would help others.

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I would be happy for You to do that, I must admit I am also intrigued by Your thoughts on it and response to it, if that were possible on House of Hotchkiss or privately if You would prefer that would be helpful to me in trying to progress and develop in my capacity. If there is anything else from me that would be of assistance, Your instruction will receive my full attention and application, meagre though my application might be at such a distance (I feel inadequate that that is all it is).

Me

I don’t really know you well enough to have a reaction; I try to reserve judgment. Mostly, I would say that it seems like you need to find someone you trust and want to explore with.

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Of course you are correct, and I have to say I am finding it remarkably difficult, and have done for some years, to find someone to trust and explore with. It is perhaps not knowing how such devices as the humbler would be used that creates the anxiety (and perhaps also the excitement) – the weight and feel of the device itself seems formidable enough a challenge (and feebly I wonder whether I could even manage that). The prospect of the attachments you describe adds further bewilderment. I have had electrics there before and let’s just say I’ve never forgotten it, it rendered me incapacitated for a few hours. Compression seems a knife edge between obedience and hours of tears…

Me

Yes! I love they way you describe it . . . knife edge. Now I am thinking about adding a knife . . . PERFECT!

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If I may say so Lady Hotch Kiss, that is the delicious but agonising spiral trap a submissive is drawn into by a commanding and talented Mistress… For my part I perhaps surprise myself by saying that I still fear compression most, even more than some knife play, not that I have experienced that or understand Your needs. Your power to inflict agony is one thing, then I have to say I fear lasting damage with compression too, perhaps that is my hang-up, and of course once a Mistress has discovered this She may decide to use it to “soften” other different limits. I apologise for any un-necessary verbage in my replies, the last thing I wish is Your boredom.

Me

Compression? I have never caused permanent damage; although many have thought so . . . My boy (owned boy) REALLY hates compression and insists that ball pain is the WORST pain ever. Of course, I disagree and constantly test his capacity for pain. He recently gifted Me with a ball busting session . . . he suggested it! Was great. lol.

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Thank You. I would agree with Your owned boy, the WORST pain, really. I was once hit by a hockey ball when a teenager, I was doubled up for hours, vomitted, people said I still looked white the next day, and I couldn’t walk properly for about 3 days. Since then I’ve never been able to understand ball kicking sessions and how slaves could submit without being wiped out. Maybe men are different from one to another (and I wonder about that with the humbler too, some men’s necks are long and some are short, probably the case that there’s more or less hanging distance, so the humbler either fits snuggly or requires bending double and risk of damage). But still all slaves wish to serve to their best capacity and learn that that capacity can be increased. A feeling of worthlessness does arise if that capacity is so inadequate as to be of little value.

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A boy Humbled

Lady Hotchkiss — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:22:22 +0000

My boy and I haven’t had any time to play recently; I am sure you have all noticed! He had to skip his weekly time with Me; work can get SOOOOO get in the way of F U N. He did have sometime later and made himself available. Typically, I will ONLY play with him on the appointed day; but we were both in withdrawals from lack of play . . . and he hadn’t played with ANY of the toys I had gotten at DomCom – that was TWO months ago. No wonder we were jonesing for adrenaline!

He was surprised when I sent him off to the dungeon to get ready. I had already turned on the heater to make sure the room was something above frigid. But, I KNEW that My new aluminum humbler would still be cool. boy was nicely displayed before Me when I arrived and to My shock the humbler was WARM. Can you imagine, he had put it on the heater to warm it up and THEN put it back and got in place when he heard Me coming . . .

I teased him a little about it and made my plans quietly. First, I bound and chained him to the St. Andrews Cross. Then, I put the humbler in the freezer! After some flogging with a variety of floggers I took the humbler out the freezer and “installed” it. Did some flogging, groping, pulling, compression (his least favorite cbt technique) pokey thingy play, slapping, etc. Was GREAT; at least for Me.

Enjoy the photos of a boy humbled.

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Humbled

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 19:08:00 +0000

I have wanted a metal humbler for about a year. I saw one last year at DomCon and simply fell in love with the design, the look, the possibilities; My eyes glow just thinking about it! Wood ones can be found “readily” on the internet . . . but not the one I saw (eyes glazing over in euphoria). I thought I had the card and would be able to easily order it from the internet when the time was right. I search for it last year . . . to no AVAIL! I went through all the business cards I got, searched the vendor list, and combed through their websites. Nothing I tell you, NOTHING. After doing all I could; even a Domme had to give in . . . it was a tough, but I just couldn’t make any headway and had nowhere else to turn.

The first thing I did this year at DomCon was cruise the vendor area to see if I could find “My humbler”! And guess what, it was there. I sidled up to it and made friends with the vendor, asked questions (namely about how to find them on the internet!) . . . it was still all I had dreamed it would be; plus there was a ball crusher/electrical plate. Yummy; drooling Domme.

As it turns out . . . someone purchased this as a gift for Me at DomCon! I got to play with it and him and a new genital “painbrush”. As he can sometimes break toys; I also got him a gag. I enjoyed the gag and watching him drool; truly he was humbled.

More toys were purchased . . . so look for the stories.

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