NOW is the time to change the balance of power in your relationship.  NOW.  I have a few suggestions to help . . . let’s about poly, chastity, forced-bi, and cuckolding.

First the poly is about YOU; not him.  No one is going to want him when his cock is locked in a chastity device.  Since he seems incapable of managing his own “affairs”; manage them for him.  All you have to do is say 50% OR the chastity device . . . decision will be made.

Next the idea is for him to keep it on.  String him along and say just a few days.  Then once it is securely on; LOSE the key.  I mean it; keep that wandering dick locked.  That way you KNOW it is yours and when something happens.

He will WHINE and find articles on the internet about prostate health; IGNORE.  If his doctor says that he needs release; make him BEG and then have your personal trainer milk him and make him eat it.  Then let the chauffeur eat you and fuck you while Mr. Elin Nordegren watches.

Finally, let him lick you clean after your 10^th orgasm with, Paco, the pool boy.

If you really want to KNOW where he is; put a LoJack in his vibrating butt plug.  Tell him if you think he is fucking around; you will turn the butt plug to ON randomly when he is putting.

NO MERCY!  Mrs. Tiger Woods you NEED to make FemDom Transformation; it will make you both happy!

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Let’s begin by agreeing that terms are not perfect and not get into the discussion of “forced-bi” . . . let’s agree that it simply means something you wouldn’t ordinarily do.  Phew, got that out of the way!

Then let’s talk about what activities are included in forced-bi.  Mostly, the discussions are about cocksucking.  Anal sex is rarely discussed.  My questioning this leads me to believe that males think that cocksucking is MORE forced.  That is, it is something they have to ACTIVELY participate in and they are facing the cock and engaged with it.  If find this odd; as a woman I would rather be raped by being forced to suck cock than to be forced into penetrative sex.  Interesting perspective. 

The other thought is the cocksucking seems more approachable and LESS scary than having anal sex . . . so the discussion goes to cock sucking.  This then takes it out of the Dom’s control and puts the forced in the relatively safe range of the s-type.  What if the Domme wants penetrative sex? And doesn’t care about sucking?

Further, many of the male fantasies have the Domme providing instruction and watching closely.  What if She would rather you feigned enjoyment and while She used the hitachi or had another take care of her needs? 

My boy is learning that there are layers to submission.  How far would you go? 

Would you participate in a scene with a man you didn’t know?  With no instruction from Her?  Without Her present?  Penetrative sex?  Would you beg to be fucked?  Would you swallow?  Would you clean Him? 

What is your fantasy?  What is Hers/his?  Whose matters?

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My take is that is it “forced” because it is not a fantasy they would probably chose to actualize (at least not at that time).  Come on . . . we ALL have those fantasies!  Just because you daydream about something, doesn’t mean you want it in real life or are prepared to do it RIGHT THEN.  Also, there is the idea of boundary pushing, voyeurism (a Domme always seems to be watching), completely giving up self to another, etc.  It is not simply a question of FORCING an act; but of forcing the timing, the situation, the submission.  There is also the cuckolding situation; many males like to lick the bull clean.  What is that if not forced-bi?

According to Women’s Health magazine (May 2009), males fantasizing about a guy is the 4^th most common sexual fantasy!  So, forced?  In the general use of the word . . . probably NOT.  I have little ability to physically FORCE a bigger and stronger male to do much.  I have LOTS of ability to stretch their boundaries, challenge them mentally, and to open up new avenues of pleasures for Me (oh yeah . . . and them!).  Don’t tell them fool you; they WANT it!

Ladies . . . Let’s force those fantasies into the open!  There is a continuum between TOTALLY hetero and TOTALLY gay; let’s help our boys find out where they are.   What are you stories of popping a forced-bi cherry?

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