Posts Tagged ‘Edge Play’
This mean different things to different people. For some it means the edge of “normal” in BDSM, for others it means anything that could result in death if things go bad, for others it means something else. So, in the first instance, rope is not edge play and in the second rope is edge play. In many cases, the play activity overlaps both usages of the term. Read the rest of this entry »
DomCon Atlanta 2009 started with a great day of seminars with other professional Dommes. We discussed everything from pampering to the law. As the day progressed so did the number of attendees. Gaining others input and perspective is always interesting. Mostly, it was enriching getting to know others in the profession.
Friday was a day packed with seminars, friends, and FU N at the dungeon. It started with a ride to the Con on My boy’s motorcycle, 75 is NOT fast enough! Dea presented a class on anatomy and safety, and sled and I later attended classes on dungeon monitoring. Nikita presented her class on Swtiching, which was VERY well received . . . she looks forward to presenting this at more venues. Nikita, Dea, sled, and I all ended up at the dungeon that night; with Me working over sled for quite some time . . . ending up with quirting as CBT. (Which I was later told was some of our best play, EVER!)
Saturday was a BIG day for sled and I . . .he was again the demo bottom for Dea and sounds. This is how we met; so there is a special place in our heart for both Dea and sounds. After the demo, there was an advanced sounds demo using prostate play, electricity, and vibrators. Just, WOW!
I did end up going to the caning seminar. It was entirely different, erotic, and engrossing. Better as a performance piece than a demo; but INCREDIBLE.
My weekend was cut short just before this demo . . . see posting.
Looking forward to My next DomCon.
i am evolving as a slave. Those who have read my posts will note an immediate difference. i am no longer using the 3rd person “boy” when speaking of myself. The rationale and justification for that usage is now gone. i asked LadyHotchKiss near the beginning of O/our relationship what i should call myself and She asked me what i wished to be called. At the time, i decided i wanted to use the 3rd person “boy” as a tool to help me get into the proper headspace when serving, or for that matter, even thinking of Her. It has become no longer necessary. i am in the proper headspace nearly all the time now, and in fact, have to consciously monitor myself when in vanilla situations so that i don’t appear slave-like at inappropriate moments. There are other changes as well.
Last weekend sled and I went to 1763 for an auction. Since I don’t really enjoy playing in public we had planned a “bootblacking” and foot worship scene. I use the “quotes”, I don’t really have BOOTS; I have ladies shoes!
When we arrived, we realized that Doms were also being auctioned and all proceeds were for CC_Maam’s travel fund! About a dozen people put themselves up for auction including BellaForte – a cute, young, focused Domme. For some reason BOTH sled and I were interested – can you imagine? Did I say that I’m bi? Read the rest of this entry »
