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Humbler, Bondage, and Anal

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:00:04 +0000

Here are two pics; not sure what else needs to be said! lol.

Those balls look well USED. I KNOW I had fun!

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Masturbation Limit?

Lady Hotchkiss — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:00:22 +0000

I am always surprised by what people find difficult or a boundary. Not LIMITS so much as places to grow “through”.

As you know I had a masturbation week a while ago . . . I challenged someone to masturbate for Me; only to find that this was a boundary! Interesting. After working on this issue for a 15 or minutes I was able to get him to lie down, position himself in a way that I could SEE his cock, and then touch himself. And by touch I mean just that: touch . . . simply put a finger on his cock. Then I asked him to tell Me one of his current fantasies . . . after blushing and stammering for a while I let him off the hook with a homework assignment.

Everyone has their boundaries and they are different and can change over time. That is OK! As a Dom it is great fun to work through those .

The BEST part of this is that he has no problem with CBT, enemas, pictures, etc. Such a juxtaposition . . . thankfully he wants to experience “everything”. Something I continually hold over his head!

He loves impact play, but there is SOOOO much more to experience. And he WILL!

Here is a picture of him waiting to be told it is OK to release the enema!

I think you can see the RED nipples . . . having a little nipple torture while we waited for the enema to works its magic!

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Fluff?? Not Me!

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:00:48 +0000

Recently, My time with My boy has been limited and/or kinda fluffy in play. I mean what would you call masturbating to release?? Not much of a stretch.

This week, I got back to My old self; LOTS of pain, little warm up! Since, I started advertising as a pro I have had to learn to moderate, at least a little. Not EVERYONE is a pain slut. My boy isn’t; but that is another story! Thankfully, My boy is OWNED, and as good property he does his best to please in all things; including using his safeword for emergencies ONLY.

I handcuffed and chained him bent over the table; great for cbt, spanking, and ass play. Just what we did. We tested out the different sorts of cbt. I focused on compression as the poll says it is the preferred; as it turns out, not My boys favorite, neither is slapping or pokey. hmmm, was surprised a little . . . But, I like them all. With a few small weights hanging from clothes pins, was a joy to behold.

The spanking included several rounds of hand spanking, the steel reinforced leather paddle, and a dragons tail. I caught him early and unprepared for the dragon’s tail . . . which I LOVE doing. All the more pain and squirming for Me!

Then I went at him with a flogger, which he LOVES. Of course, I had to pair this with a little cbt!

Finally, and the BEST mind fuck . . . I gently stroked his inner thighs and balls . . . all the while talking to him about what I could do. Each time I got close to his testicles he whimpered. Of course, I never did anything but heighten the anticipation. Was great, I am still laughing about his noises.

To read his side of the story.

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Humbling Desire for a Femdom

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:44:43 +0000

Facebook Friend

Lady Hotchkiss I am certain it is appreciated by those who take a short time to look, or who know You. May I express the hope that I offer sufficient lubency around Superior women. And thank You for saving that word! Perhaps it is disappearing because it is difficult to do, fully. Just one example from Your blog which has left me thinking and pondering and, I hope I can achieve this, considering whether I should be revising my attitude to limits and serving. Your writing on the steel humbler made my heart go faster and things fluttered in my stomach. When You added that it has compression and electrics attachments I had a conflict of emotions between knowing that such a thing exists, that You have one, and I have to confess some anxiety and fear even to think of it. I confess I do not have the experience to understand how that would be administered and the effects. It is the intelligence with which you write, and think, and the SSC context which makes me consider attempting to take further the sort of service I might give. Your account of putting it in the freezer is devilishly incapacitating, You will know I am certain the effect of cold on those male parts and hence the increase in tension achieved. In truth my anxiety of failure in such a situation is real, but it is through accounts such as Yours that I may learn more and become a more appropriate subject at such time I have the honour of serving a Superior woman. Thank you.

Me

If I may . . . I would love to share your email on House of HotchKiss; I think it would help others.

Facebook Friend

I would be happy for You to do that, I must admit I am also intrigued by Your thoughts on it and response to it, if that were possible on House of Hotchkiss or privately if You would prefer that would be helpful to me in trying to progress and develop in my capacity. If there is anything else from me that would be of assistance, Your instruction will receive my full attention and application, meagre though my application might be at such a distance (I feel inadequate that that is all it is).

Me

I don’t really know you well enough to have a reaction; I try to reserve judgment. Mostly, I would say that it seems like you need to find someone you trust and want to explore with.

Facebook Friend

Of course you are correct, and I have to say I am finding it remarkably difficult, and have done for some years, to find someone to trust and explore with. It is perhaps not knowing how such devices as the humbler would be used that creates the anxiety (and perhaps also the excitement) – the weight and feel of the device itself seems formidable enough a challenge (and feebly I wonder whether I could even manage that). The prospect of the attachments you describe adds further bewilderment. I have had electrics there before and let’s just say I’ve never forgotten it, it rendered me incapacitated for a few hours. Compression seems a knife edge between obedience and hours of tears…

Me

Yes! I love they way you describe it . . . knife edge. Now I am thinking about adding a knife . . . PERFECT!

Facebook Friend

If I may say so Lady Hotch Kiss, that is the delicious but agonising spiral trap a submissive is drawn into by a commanding and talented Mistress… For my part I perhaps surprise myself by saying that I still fear compression most, even more than some knife play, not that I have experienced that or understand Your needs. Your power to inflict agony is one thing, then I have to say I fear lasting damage with compression too, perhaps that is my hang-up, and of course once a Mistress has discovered this She may decide to use it to “soften” other different limits. I apologise for any un-necessary verbage in my replies, the last thing I wish is Your boredom.

Me

Compression? I have never caused permanent damage; although many have thought so . . . My boy (owned boy) REALLY hates compression and insists that ball pain is the WORST pain ever. Of course, I disagree and constantly test his capacity for pain. He recently gifted Me with a ball busting session . . . he suggested it! Was great. lol.

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Thank You. I would agree with Your owned boy, the WORST pain, really. I was once hit by a hockey ball when a teenager, I was doubled up for hours, vomitted, people said I still looked white the next day, and I couldn’t walk properly for about 3 days. Since then I’ve never been able to understand ball kicking sessions and how slaves could submit without being wiped out. Maybe men are different from one to another (and I wonder about that with the humbler too, some men’s necks are long and some are short, probably the case that there’s more or less hanging distance, so the humbler either fits snuggly or requires bending double and risk of damage). But still all slaves wish to serve to their best capacity and learn that that capacity can be increased. A feeling of worthlessness does arise if that capacity is so inadequate as to be of little value.

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New Pictures!

Lady Hotchkiss — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:37:28 +0000

I have been TRYING to get the pictures to work . . . and think I have FINALLY taken care of the problem! So, more regualr pics should be on the way . . . these are some pic from late November.

ENJOY!

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Regifting Ball Busting

Lady Hotchkiss — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:07:18 +0000

Had SUCH a lovely time with My boy recently! Read his account.

He made a small comment about being stuck on a visual from a ball busting video. HE thought he might “like” it and that I might enjoy it. He was VERY hesitant to mention it; but did. He is a pain slut; but really doesn’t enjoy ball pain at all. He prefers pokey (like a wartenburg wheel) and thuddy paid. Thankfully, he knows it isn’t all about him.

While he was gingerly considering perhaps doing something in the future; I was PLANNING!

We went through three basic poses and ball busting . . . on his back, on all fours, and standing with his legs spread. The first two were naked and while painful; a little more than he had expected, but manageable. The last one was with jeans on; no where for the little ones to go and MUCH more painful. Quite satisfying for Me!

What a gift; I am sure that I will be “regifting” back to him REPEATEDLY!

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Hot Sauce CBT?

Lady Hotchkiss — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:45:18 +0000

This was a recently session . . . thank you to Strapped in Silk for the pic of Me (click on the second pic to see it) . . .




	
	
		
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Review: DomCon Atlanta 2009

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:32:16 +0000

DomCon Atlanta 2009 started with a great day of seminars with other professional Dommes. We discussed everything from pampering to the law. As the day progressed so did the number of attendees. Gaining others input and perspective is always interesting. Mostly, it was enriching getting to know others in the profession.
Friday was a day packed with seminars, friends, and FU N at the dungeon. It started with a ride to the Con on My boy’s motorcycle, 75 is NOT fast enough! Dea presented a class on anatomy and safety, and sled and I later attended classes on dungeon monitoring. Nikita presented her class on Swtiching, which was VERY well received . . . she looks forward to presenting this at more venues. Nikita, Dea, sled, and I all ended up at the dungeon that night; with Me working over sled for quite some time . . . ending up with quirting as CBT. (Which I was later told was some of our best play, EVER!)
Saturday was a BIG day for sled and I . . .he was again the demo bottom for Dea and sounds. This is how we met; so there is a special place in our heart for both Dea and sounds. After the demo, there was an advanced sounds demo using prostate play, electricity, and vibrators. Just, WOW!
I did end up going to the caning seminar. It was entirely different, erotic, and engrossing. Better as a performance piece than a demo; but INCREDIBLE.
My weekend was cut short just before this demo . . . see posting.
Looking forward to My next DomCon.

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“I Brake Toys!”

Lady Hotchkiss — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 18:05:07 +0000

Recently, I had a problem . . . a new toy was broken during play. As this was a steel reinforced paddle it was rather surprising (it has been replaced by the vendor). The REAL issue was when GentlemanX KEPT saying that it was MY fault! As he is a newbie I explained with patience how Doms don’t break toys . . . s-types do. But, even with patience and repeated explanations; his attitude, joking, and laughing kept him from learning the lesson. Note the mark from the finisher! I did have a great time imparting this lesson with My new matching floggers, cbt, clover clamps, bastinado, and clothespins. I thought the lesson well learned.

Until . . . I saw GentlemanX again! I had to instruct on this SAME lesson; AGAIN. Imagine My dismay. At the end of the next session, he appeared to have learned to say “I break toys”; but, now I am doubtful that the lesson is really learned. I think he has merely learned to mimic the words; but, that his thought pattern hasn’t changed and that the lesson will be undone the next time we meet.

I told him that W/we would continue this tutorial. I have a toy I need to get at DomCon!

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CBT

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:15:27 +0000

Before I allowed My friend to worship my feet, we did a “little” CBT (cock and ball torture). He was a lovely site! He was snuggly in the CBT tower, which was placed in the St. Andrew’s Cross. I then put him in leather wrist restraints, which were fixed above shoulder height to the Cross. Because of the construction of the two pieces he was bowed back (not so gently) and as a result his cock and balls were pulling away from the tower before we started playing. Truly it was a site to behold! I just love the different colors in the pics; was more fun to watch them change color as the minutes passed by. Finally, he begged to be allowed to remove the clothespins and I graciously allowed him to. I have never seen anyone be so tender; not even with a new born. Was quite endearing!

Once he got his faculties back . . . we moved on to foot worship. As he mentioned, I have “true” stair step toes; well formed and luscious to suckle.

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