Posts Tagged ‘cbt’
Here are two pics; not sure what else needs to be said! lol.
I am always surprised by what people find difficult or a boundary. Not LIMITS so much as places to grow “through”. Read the rest of this entry »
Recently, My time with My boy has been limited and/or kinda fluffy in play. I mean what would you call masturbating to release?? Not much of a stretch.
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Lady Hotchkiss I am certain it is appreciated by those who take a short time to look, or who know You. May I express the hope that I offer sufficient lubency around Superior women. And thank You for saving that word! Perhaps it is disappearing because it is difficult to do, fully. Just one example from Your blog which has left me thinking and pondering and, I hope I can achieve this, considering whether I should be revising my attitude to limits and serving. Your writing on the steel humbler made my heart go faster and things fluttered in my stomach. When You added that it has compression and electrics attachments I had a conflict of emotions between knowing that such a thing exists, that You have one, and I have to confess some anxiety and fear even to think of it. I confess I do not have the experience to understand how that would be administered and the effects. It is the intelligence with which you write, and think, and the SSC context which makes me consider attempting to take further the sort of service I might give. Your account of putting it in the freezer is devilishly incapacitating, You will know I am certain the effect of cold on those male parts and hence the increase in tension achieved. In truth my anxiety of failure in such a situation is real, but it is through accounts such as Yours that I may learn more and become a more appropriate subject at such time I have the honour of serving a Superior woman. Thank you.
I have been TRYING to get the pictures to work . . . and think I have FINALLY taken care of the problem! So, more regualr pics should be on the way . . . these are some pic from late November. Read the rest of this entry »
Had SUCH a lovely time with My boy recently! Read his account.
He made a small comment about being stuck on a visual from a ball busting video. HE thought he might “like” it and that I might enjoy it. He was VERY hesitant to mention it; but did. He is a pain slut; but really doesn’t enjoy ball pain at all. He prefers pokey (like a wartenburg wheel) and thuddy paid. Thankfully, he knows it isn’t all about him. Read the rest of this entry »
This was a recently session . . . thank you to Strapped in Silk for the pic of Me (click on the second pic to see it) . . . Read the rest of this entry »
DomCon Atlanta 2009 started with a great day of seminars with other professional Dommes. We discussed everything from pampering to the law. As the day progressed so did the number of attendees. Gaining others input and perspective is always interesting. Mostly, it was enriching getting to know others in the profession.
Friday was a day packed with seminars, friends, and FU N at the dungeon. It started with a ride to the Con on My boy’s motorcycle, 75 is NOT fast enough! Dea presented a class on anatomy and safety, and sled and I later attended classes on dungeon monitoring. Nikita presented her class on Swtiching, which was VERY well received . . . she looks forward to presenting this at more venues. Nikita, Dea, sled, and I all ended up at the dungeon that night; with Me working over sled for quite some time . . . ending up with quirting as CBT. (Which I was later told was some of our best play, EVER!)
Saturday was a BIG day for sled and I . . .he was again the demo bottom for Dea and sounds. This is how we met; so there is a special place in our heart for both Dea and sounds. After the demo, there was an advanced sounds demo using prostate play, electricity, and vibrators. Just, WOW!
I did end up going to the caning seminar. It was entirely different, erotic, and engrossing. Better as a performance piece than a demo; but INCREDIBLE.
My weekend was cut short just before this demo . . . see posting.
Looking forward to My next DomCon.
Recently, I had a problem . . . a new toy was broken during play. As this was a steel reinforced paddle it was rather surprising (it has been replaced by the vendor). The REAL issue was when GentlemanX KEPT saying that it was MY fault! As he is a newbie I explained with patience how Doms don’t break toys . . . s-types do. But, even with patience and repeated explanations; his attitude, joking, and laughing kept him from learning the lesson. Note the mark from the finisher! I did have a great time imparting this lesson with My new matching floggers, cbt, clover clamps, bastinado, and clothespins. I thought the lesson well learned.
Before I allowed My friend to worship my feet, we did a “little” CBT (cock and ball torture). He was a lovely site! He was snuggly in the CBT tower, which was placed in the St. Andrew’s Cross. I then put him in leather wrist restraints, which were fixed above shoulder height to the Cross. Because of the construction of the two pieces he was bowed back (not so gently) and as a result his cock and balls were pulling away from the tower before we started playing. Truly it was a site to behold! I just love the different colors in the pics; was more fun to watch them change color as the minutes passed by. Finally, he begged to be allowed to remove the clothespins and I graciously allowed him to. I have never seen anyone be so tender; not even with a new born. Was quite endearing!
Ma’am and I spent time recently at Her mothers home in Florida. As with many Floridians she had a pool. Since the home is rather secluded and the pool has a privacy screen W/we were able to swim sans bathing suits.
