I am always surprised by what people find difficult or a boundary.  Not LIMITS so much as places to grow “through”.

As you know I had a masturbation week a while ago . . . I challenged someone to masturbate for Me; only to find that this was a boundary!  Interesting.  After working on this issue for a 15 or minutes I was able to get him to lie down, position himself in a way that I could SEE his cock, and then touch himself.  And by touch I mean just that: touch . . . simply put a finger on his cock.  Then I asked him to tell Me one of his current fantasies . . . after blushing and stammering for a while I let him off the hook with a homework assignment.

Everyone has their boundaries and they are different and can change over time.  That is OK!  As a Dom it is great fun to work through those .

The BEST part of this is that he has no problem with CBT, enemas, pictures, etc.  Such a juxtaposition . . . thankfully he wants to experience “everything”.  Something I continually hold over his head! 

He loves impact play, but there is SOOOO much more to experience.  And he WILL!

Here is a picture of him waiting to be told it is OK to release the enema!

 I think you can see the RED nipples . . . having a little nipple torture while we waited for the enema to works its magic!

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This week, I got back to My old self; LOTS of pain, little warm up!  Since, I started advertising as a pro I have had to learn to moderate, at least a little.  Not EVERYONE is a pain slut.  My boy isn’t; but that is another story!  Thankfully, My boy is OWNED, and as good property he does his best to please in all things; including using his safeword for emergencies ONLY.

I handcuffed and chained him bent over the table; great for cbt, spanking, and ass play.  Just what we did.  We tested out the different sorts of cbt.  I focused on compression as the poll says it is the preferred; as it turns out, not My boys favorite, neither is slapping or pokey.  hmmm, was surprised a little .  .  .  But, I like them all.  With a few small weights hanging from clothes pins, was a joy to behold.

The spanking included several rounds of hand spanking, the steel reinforced leather paddle, and a dragons tail.  I caught him early and unprepared for the dragon’s tail . . . which I LOVE doing.  All the more pain and squirming for Me!

Then I went at him with a flogger, which he LOVES.  Of course, I had to pair this with a little cbt!

Finally, and the BEST mind fuck . . . I gently stroked his inner thighs and balls . . . all the while talking to him about what I could do.  Each time I got close to his testicles he whimpered.  Of course, I never did anything but heighten the anticipation.  Was great, I am still laughing about his noises.

To read his side of the story.

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