I had no idea Lady HotchKiss was a computer maven, whose real identity should be Techno Dom. Now for some people this might seem like a fairly innocuous problem, but for a barely computer literate individual it is rather daunting. Especially in light of the fact that when ever I’m around Her I seem to lose the ability to do the simplest tasks. Like driving, thinking, talking…Y/you get the picture.

W/we have spent the last three nights setting up my computer and working on getting me familiarized with different programs Ma’am uses.  Apparently this process is also a “trigger” for me, since I ended up having the same reaction I did when my engineer father (think math wizard) tried to teach his non-mathematically inclined (think someone who uses a calculator to balance his checkbook) son basic algebra. OK, that might be a slight exaggeration. And after Ma’am and I talked last night W/we did work out a better procedure to help me assimilate technology.

Little by little Ma’am is rubbing off my rough edges and helping me loose the emotional baggage I’ve carried around for far too long. Helping me become a better man and a far better slave.

sled, Owned slave of Lady HotchKiss

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Currently I’m struggling with organizing my time to allow me to complete my assigned tasks, as well as others that come up from time to time. Luckily, Ma’am understands this is a huge transition for me. Leaving my relatively stable home and life (albeit unhappy home and life) and plunging into Hers.

i’m very lucky Ma’am is very understanding and patient allowing a fairly large “learning curve” as i sometimes struggle to learn the ins and outs of managing Her household. But I’m making progress and know at some point I’ll be able to look back at these first few weeks and smile at how stressed and sometimes cranky I really was.

sled, Owned slave of Lady HotchKiss

7-16-09

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Currently I commute approximately 3½ hours Monday through Friday, which means that many days the commute is even longer due to weather and traffic conditions. So often when I arrive home I’m worn out.

Also Ma’am has a busy active life outside BDSM working and volunteering which keeps Her busy during the week and sometimes for part of the weekend.

She also recently begun seeing more private clients as a professional Dominatrix which further ties ups Her time. Requiring both of U/us to juggle O/our lifestyle activities. Which has seriously cut down on the time W/we play together, among other things.

That has been one of the hardest aspects O/our 24?7 relationship to adapt too, having to “share” Ma’am with others. I wouldn’t ever go back to the my life before 24/7, but someday, especially when I’m overwhelmed and busy, I sometimes long for the days of being Madams’ part time slave!

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