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Lady Hotchkiss — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 11:35:52 +0000

I have found that I am quite busy and not able to maintain the blog as frequently as I was . . . as a result I have put this on another page. I will update still, but not as frequently.

You can still find Me on FormSpring, Twitter, and FaceBook! I also have a FaceBook fan page . . .

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Top 100 Sex Bloggers

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:40:01 +0000

The Top 100 Sex Bloggers for 2009 were announced by Between My Sheets. Some of the bloggers I already follow via their sites and twitter; some I will be interested to check out . . .

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Toe Sucking Sex Offender

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:24:12 +0000

Glad I know PLENTY that are toe suckers and are not sex offenders!

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To all those Mouthy Subs on FetLife

Lady Hotchkiss — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 17:59:44 +0000

Get a drink from Hulaboy on Fetlife!

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Trying Out the New Dungeon

Lady Hotchkiss — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 23:35:08 +0000

GentlemanX came by the dungeon for a little training and to try some new things out. W/we thoroughly enjoyed our time together; talking some, playing a lot!

He is new and just trying to try things out . . . serving tea, flogging, chains, cbt, and otk spanking were all on the agenda . . . flogging seems to have the most “impact”! From feet kissing, to serving tea, to offering his wrists for bondage, to “leaking” a little . . . he was a joy to get to know. He looked great on the St. Andrews Cross, just w a i t i n g for My ministrations. He had a safe trip home and was doing well this weekend. I think there might be some plans for forced feminization in his future.

Cheers to ALL that are willing to take a step, try something new, and be who they are. Being yourself is the greatest gift you can give yourself.

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6/28 – Laugh of the Day

Lady Hotchkiss — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:48:07 +0000

From Strappedinsilk

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Too Busy to have F U N!

Lady Hotchkiss — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 13:25:33 +0000

Last weekend went to the Gwinnett Munch and karaoke after, My first Spankers of the Southeast Pool Party, and then to the local club for Whippersnappers; then THIS week . . . on Sunday went to a MAsT meeting, and Wednesday to the new North Fulton Munch. All the while, working on My new dungeon space! There has hardly been time to breathe!

The Gwinnett munch and karaoke was fun as usual. This is the main munch I go to and then karaoke at a local sports bar. They did have a new person doing karaoke; not anywhere near as good as the other guy. Luckily, one of our group talked with the management and got permission to help the new guy get with our groove! Less mellow; more raucous and funky.

My first foray to a Spankers of the Southeast meeting was fun and relaxing. Did get to see a local celebrity spanker up close and personal. Found out he will be doing a demo at The Mark in August. I am very interesting in going to The Mark so this might be a perfect time. Mostly, I hung out, talked with friends, and watched a few scenes. Was nice to have a chance to meet people in a MUCH more relaxed environment.

A friend asked Me to go the Whippersnappers event at 1763. It was her first time playing in public with a new friend and she wanted someone to run interference with onlookers. She isn’t much for being watched; but is working to grow. She is very attuned to energy. But, as is usually the case; everyone was respectful. I did get to see two lovely women with their boys . . . the cbt in the medical chair, deprivation hood, expanding butt plug, etc . . . were a sheer joy to watch!

MAsT is a group that is dedicated to education and support of individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. It is a safe place to discuss relationship issues and grow. Again, got to talk with friends and make new connections.

OMG! Simply no time (or place) for any REAL play recently!

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Goof Off!

Lady Hotchkiss — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 17:58:48 +0000

Transforming an otherwise vanilla room into a dungeon is more than expected! All the painting, lighting, flooring, etc. Changing the floor from carpet into nicely finished concrete is MUCH more work than either boy or I anticipated.

After taking up the carpet and padding, the next problem is getting rid of it all. I conferred with the garbage company and would have to arrange it AND get approval from MY HOA. I would rather figure out a way to leave the HOA out of My life; boy, therefore, ended up cutting the carpet and padding so that it doesn’t require a bulk pickup. Now boy is filling in the holes left from removing the carpet tacks. But, the REALLY annoying part is the attempts at getting up the carpet glue!

Here is the REAL part of the blog . . . boy and I were at Lowe’s today asking for assistance with getting this glue off. All the men in the paint department got this glint in their eye and said GOOF OFF! They were virtually drooling and glassy eyed at the thought of this stuff . . . similar to a woman being set loose with no budget at Tiffany’s!

There is still a rather lengthy list left to do; but it is mostly the floor and details.

Check in later for the results of the Goof Off . . .

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Showers – Golden and Otherwise

Lady Hotchkiss — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 15:38:06 +0000

Honestly, this is NOT a passion of Mine; simply something to experiment with.

I have been trying to pee on sled in the shower for a few months . . . to NO avail! Doesn’t seem like it should be a big deal; I have been peeing in the shower for YEARS! But, as guys will attest; performance anxiety can overrule any amount of practice. Lol.

Yesterday during our early evening shower, I FINALLY managed to pee on him! He was lying on the shower floor; I stood above him with legs spread . . . and a warm stream landed on him with the water from the shower! I moved along his chest and made sure that some landed on his cock. Was cool! Mostly, I was thrilled to have managed it!

Then last night after the munch and karaoke I had a ton of energy (see Allegra story ) . . . and came home and played! After downing 3 HUGH glasses of Diet Coke; I jumped in the car and drove home. Thankfully, no cops pulled Me over! Got home, sled was sleeping on the couch waiting for Me. Ordered him to the shower and his eyes grew wide and ran up the stairs! As I stood over him, I KNEW that I was going to be able to do it! This time with My pee being the ONLY warmth that was hitting him. And I did it. As I was letting go, I moved over his chest again – between his throat and cock. What a sight! sled sat up and his tongue brought Me to orgasm. There are worse ways to start! Lol.

I decided we were all “derty” and needed and shower; some parts got special attention. We rolled into bed and fell asleep a while later . . . more orgasms for Me, and one on countdown for him!

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“Forced”-Bi

Lady Hotchkiss — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 15:24:31 +0000

This topic seems to be a perpetual raging debate. It is really forced when they are bi-willing? Typically the fantasies on Fetlife revolve around cock sucking, not intercourse. Many have said that cock sucking is “MORE” since the sucker has to choose to participate actively. Of course, this leaves out the part about intercourse and the feeling of invasion and taking another into you – like women do all the TIME!

My take is that is it “forced” because it is not a fantasy they would probably chose to actualize (at least not at that time). Come on . . . we ALL have those fantasies! Just because you daydream about something, doesn’t mean you want it in real life or are prepared to do it RIGHT THEN. Also, there is the idea of boundary pushing, voyeurism (a Domme always seems to be watching), completely giving up self to another, etc. It is not simply a question of FORCING an act; but of forcing the timing, the situation, the submission. There is also the cuckolding situation; many males like to lick the bull clean. What is that if not forced-bi?

According to Women’s Health magazine (May 2009), males fantasizing about a guy is the 4^th most common sexual fantasy! So, forced? In the general use of the word . . . probably NOT. I have little ability to physically FORCE a bigger and stronger male to do much. I have LOTS of ability to stretch their boundaries, challenge them mentally, and to open up new avenues of pleasures for Me (oh yeah . . . and them!). Don’t tell them fool you; they WANT it!

Ladies . . . Let’s force those fantasies into the open! There is a continuum between TOTALLY hetero and TOTALLY gay; let’s help our boys find out where they are. What are you stories of popping a forced-bi cherry?

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