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I am always surprised by what people find difficult or a boundary.  Not LIMITS so much as places to grow “through”.

As you know I had a masturbation week a while ago . . . I challenged someone to masturbate for Me; only to find that this was a boundary!  Interesting.  After working on this issue for a 15 or minutes I was able to get him to lie down, position himself in a way that I could SEE his cock, and then touch himself.  And by touch I mean just that: touch . . . simply put a finger on his cock.  Then I asked him to tell Me one of his current fantasies . . . after blushing and stammering for a while I let him off the hook with a homework assignment.

 

Everyone has their boundaries and they are different and can change over time.  That is OK!  As a Dom it is great fun to work through those ;-) .

 

The BEST part of this is that he has no problem with CBT, enemas, pictures, etc.  Such a juxtaposition . . . thankfully he wants to experience “everything”.  Something I continually hold over his head! 

 

He loves impact play, but there is SOOOO much more to experience.  And he WILL!

 

Here is a picture of him waiting to be told it is OK to release the enema!

 

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 I think you can see the RED nipples . . . having a little nipple torture while we waited for the enema to works its magic!

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    I disappointed the last dominant person that I was in a relationship with. As much as I loved her being watched while masturbating was something I couldn’t do. And I do consider myself submissive and am very, very masochistic.
     
    I think that for many men masturbation becomes uncontrollably ritualistic. Having through the years masturbated only when there was no other option I was started when she asked me to. But I can’t retain an erection. Masturbation had been too long something I did alone. The presence of another broke the ‘ritual.’
     
    The sort of silly limitation you’d never guess you have until it is revealed.
     
    Richard

  • Lady Hotchkiss:

    The ritual aspect is interesting.  Isn't this all about getting OUT of your comfort zone??

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