I have discussed this topic before and am sure to do so again!
Let’s begin by agreeing that terms are not perfect and not get into the discussion of “forced-bi” . . . let’s agree that it simply means something you wouldn’t ordinarily do. Phew, got that out of the way!
Then let’s talk about what activities are included in forced-bi. Mostly, the discussions are about cocksucking. Anal sex is rarely discussed. My questioning this leads me to believe that males think that cocksucking is MORE forced. That is, it is something they have to ACTIVELY participate in and they are facing the cock and engaged with it. If find this odd; as a woman I would rather be raped by being forced to suck cock than to be forced into penetrative sex. Interesting perspective.
The other thought is the cocksucking seems more approachable and LESS scary than having anal sex . . . so the discussion goes to cock sucking. This then takes it out of the Dom’s control and puts the forced in the relatively safe range of the s-type. What if the Domme wants penetrative sex? And doesn’t care about sucking?
Further, many of the male fantasies have the Domme providing instruction and watching closely. What if She would rather you feigned enjoyment and while She used the hitachi or had another take care of her needs?
My boy is learning that there are layers to submission. How far would you go?
Would you participate in a scene with a man you didn’t know? With no instruction from Her? Without Her present? Penetrative sex? Would you beg to be fucked? Would you swallow? Would you clean Him?
What is your fantasy? What is Hers/his? Whose matters?
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Lady HotchKiss knows my views on this subject, but for other viewers of the post let me say that i have had one very unenjoyable encounter with a male Dom. It is not an experience that i would like to repeat.
Having said that, it is a requirement of the House of HotchKiss that slaves be at least bi-willing…that is, willing to experience bi activities at Her pleasure. i am Her slave and subject only to those limits which She Herself has. That She is willing to listen to and consider any other reservations i may have about a particular activity is a testament to Her nature as an Owner who cares about Hers.
To answer the questions She has posed here: yes, i would participate in a scene with a man i didn’t know, if that were Her wish; yes, i would do so with no instruction from Her other than the instruction to do so; yes, i would do so without Her being present (interesting that i don’t know if i would prefer that or not); yes, i would participate in penetrative sex; yes, if She wished it, i would beg to be fucked; i would not like to swallow, but would if She commanded it; i would not like to clean Him, but would if She commanded it.
i do not have a fantasy regarding bi activities and if i did, it would not matter. all that would matter are Her fantasies if they lay in that direction.
Very interesting questions and perspectives. While forced-bi terrifies me, I very much like the idea of complete surrender to her will… and as such, the willingness to suck a cock or be fucked for Lady Hotchkiss is a tremendous turn-on. Oddly, I find myself not wanting to find myself in these situations unless the other man in questions is exceedingly attractive… tall, muscular and masculine. It would seem to be a more perfect surrender to the Lady if he at least fit the mold of someone’s fantasy.
i just found this site and have enjoyed reading it. i have participated in cock sucking and bottom for anal penetration. All this was with the Mistress present and giving instructions. i don’t know if i would could have sex with another guy without a Mistress present and giving commands/instructions. it would take some trust building. danni
I think the difficult thing is to find the perfect match . . . find someone that works for EVERYONE to some degree. Forced-bi is about your Dom; not you . . . and that someone is really dependent on her fantasy/needs. Perhaps she wants you to “enjoy” it; perhaps not!
I find forced-bi at the command of the mistress very compelling. The more I consider it the more I realize that the unpredictability of being at mistress’ whim would make it more exciting. Much more because there is a greater chance of pleasing mistress!